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Family Wedding Stay at Oaks Port Douglas Resort

OCTOBER in Far North Queensland has a certain magic about it. The humidity eases just enough, the skies behave themselves (mostly), and the crowds thin as the annual tourist season winds down. It turned out to be the perfect time for a trip to Port Douglas — not just for a holiday, but for something far more special: my youngest son’s wedding.

Port Douglas is one of those Australian destinations that manages to feel both relaxed and special at the same time.

I spent four nights in there, staying at Oaks Port Douglas Resort, and from the moment I arrived, it felt like one of those trips where everything gently falls into place — even the small mishaps.

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Oaks Port Douglas - pond scene

The Long Road (and Air) to the Tropics

Getting there was an adventure in itself. After a long day bussing from Hervey Bay to Brisbane, flying north to Cairns, then hopping into a hire car for the scenic drive up to Port Douglas, I arrived well past “decision-making capacity”.

So when the friendly staff explained the layout of the resort at check-in, I nodded politely… and absorbed almost none of it.

Cue me wandering around the resort grounds shortly afterwards, luggage in tow, looking mildly lost and increasingly amused at myself. Salvation came in the form of a young girl — about ten — still dripping from the pool and heading back to her family’s room. She spotted my confusion and cheerfully gave me clear directions. A very Port Douglas welcome.

I finally hauled my suitcase up several flights of stairs, congratulated myself on surviving, and went to bed — only to wake the next morning and discover there was a ramp within about 20 metres of my room, making all that stair-traipsing completely unnecessary.

Doh. I should have listened. 😄

Oaks Port Douglas - woman walking up ramp

Oaks Port Douglas Room That Gets You Instantly

Inside the air-conditioned room, the TV was playing ABC Jazz when I arrived at the Oaks Port Douglas— a small touch, but such a good one. It felt welcoming straight away.

The room was spacious, comfortable and thoughtfully laid out, with a proper desk positioned right beside the balcony door. For a travel writer with a laptop, this was gold: natural light during the day, and a leafy outlook to rest tired eyes between sentences.

The room also included tea and coffee facilities, a mini-fridge, microwave and reliable Wi-Fi — everything you need if you want the flexibility of eating in or working a little while away.

The balcony quickly became my favourite spot. On my first morning, I had breakfast there, surrounded by lush tropical palms and greenery. From what I could see, most rooms enjoy similar garden or pool views, which gives the whole resort a calm, cocooned feel.

Oaks Port Douglas - bedroom

Poolside Lunches and Proper Unwinding

While waiting for family members to arrive in Port Douglas, I settled into holiday mode with lunch by the lagoon-style pool. The Pumpkin & Ricotta Arancini — served with turmeric mayonnaise and pickled onions — hit that perfect note between indulgent and light. Exactly what you want in the tropics.

Later that afternoon, I treated myself to a deep tissue massage, followed by a hand and foot manicure at the day spa. By the time evening rolled around, I was so relaxed I barely remembered what day it was — always a good sign.

That night, we gathered at the Court House Hotel, right in the heart of town. It’s a classic Aussie pub serving familiar favourites — unfussy, friendly, and ideal for a casual family dinner. Afterwards, we wandered down to take in the tropical sunset and peek at the wedding venue, just a short stroll away.

Oaks Port Douglas - lunch by the pool

A leisurely poolside lunch — pumpkin & ricotta arancini with a tropical fruit drink.

Breakfasts, Wildlife and Family-Friendly Surprises

The next morning’s breakfast was at The Lilypad, where I sat alfresco surrounded by a tropical lily pond, listening to the cascading waterfall. As I was lining up photos, a young boy from the next table pointed out a snake resting on a lily pad and suggested I might want to capture that, too.

Naturally, I did.

It was one of those moments that perfectly summed up Port Douglas — relaxed, outdoorsy, and wonderfully family-friendly. The Oaks, in particular, seemed full of multi-generational groups, kids darting between the pool and their rooms, and parents actually looking relaxed.

Oaks Port Douglas - snake in the lily pond

Spot the snake on the lily pads!

Wedding Day at St Mary’s by the Sea

Wedding day arrived with clear skies, no rain, and just the right amount of warmth — a small miracle in the tropics. The ceremony took place at St Mary’s by the Sea, a beautifully restored non-denominational chapel overlooking the Coral Sea.

Built in 1914 and relocated to its current waterfront setting, St Mary’s is simple, elegant and full of history. The large doors open straight to sea breezes and views across the water, creating an intimate atmosphere without being formal. For a small wedding, it was perfect.

The reception followed at Hemingway’s Brewery, where craft beers, relaxed waterfront vibes and generous food made for a joyful, unpretentious celebration. It felt very “Port Douglas”: social, easygoing and quietly stylish.

Oaks Port Douglas - St Mary's by the Sea

St Mary’s by the Sea, Port Douglas, Far North Queensland.

Exploring Port Douglas at an Easy Pace

The following morning called for another breakfast at Lilypad (why mess with success?), before heading out to explore.

A stroll along the esplanade revealed kite flyers in the park, locals walking with dogs, and visitors soaking up the last of the dry-season sunshine. I paused at the war memorial, a peaceful spot that adds a reflective note to the seaside buzz.

Later, I enjoyed a drink at The Tin Shed, perched right on the water with uninterrupted views — the kind of place where one drink easily becomes two.

Lunch with family followed at Choo Choos at the Marina, a relaxed spot overlooking the boats, ideal for conversation and people-watching.

Oaks Port Douglas - setting at Choo Choos

Choo Choos at the Marina, Port Douglas.

A Farewell at Oak & Vine

My final evening brought things full circle back at the resort, dining at Oak & Vine Port Douglas. The semi-alfresco setting was perfect for a warm evening, and the à la carte menu struck that balance between fresh, local and comforting.

I chose the Lemon Pepper Barramundi, followed by a Trio of Sorbet — light, refreshing and exactly what I wanted on my last night. It was a calm, contented end to a stay that had been equal parts celebration and slow exhale.

Oaks Port Douglas - evening dinner

Dinner at the Oak & Vine at the Oaks Port Douglas.

Final Thoughts

Oaks Port Douglas delivered everything it promised — beauty, ease, warmth and a sense of being properly looked after. Staying at the Oaks made the experience especially comfortable, whether I was working at the desk, relaxing on the balcony, or watching families enjoy the pool together.

If you’re planning a visit to Port Douglas — whether for a wedding, a family gathering or a well-earned break — consider Oaks Port Douglas Resort as a family-friendly, relaxed base that lets you settle in and truly enjoy the tropics. Sometimes, the best trips are the ones where even getting a little lost turns into part of the story.

Oaks Port Douglas - night pool scene

Soft evening light at the resort pool, The Oaks Port Douglas.

Planning a trip to Port Douglas?

If you’re heading to Far North Queensland for a celebration, family getaway or relaxed coastal break, Oaks Port Douglas Resort offers spacious rooms, tropical gardens and an easy walk to the heart of town. It worked beautifully as a base for our family wedding — calm, comfortable and genuinely family-friendly.

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Oaks Port Douglas - Photo collage

Chasing Cherry Blossoms in Japan and New Zealand

Cherry Blossoms in Japan

Japan, 2019.

THE allure of the Land of the Rising Sun was undeniable when my eldest son invited me to join him, his wife and their then-toddler daughter on a journey to Japan in May 2019. The country offers a plethora of sights, from the lively cityscapes of Tokyo to the tranquil landscapes of Kyoto, and from the ancient temples of Nara to the innovative architecture of Osaka.

Little did I know this adventure would lead me to discover the cultural significance of cherry blossoms and the unexpected joy they would bring me later in the year.

As we embarked on our journey to Japan, keenly aware that the cherry blossom season would likely be over by the time of our arrival, I still hoped to glimpse the fleeting cherry blossoms.

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Cherry Blossoms in the heart of Christchurch, New Zealand.

Hanami Harmony: Embracing Life’s Transience

Cherry blossoms, native to Japan and known there as Sakura, are delicate and ephemeral flowers that symbolise the transient nature of life. These iconic blossoms usually grace the Japanese landscapes in spring, creating breathtaking displays of pink and white hues. The blooming period varies, but it generally occurs between late March and early May.

The cultural and religious significance of cherry blossoms in Japan has deep roots. These flowers represent the beauty and fragility of life, a concept embraced in various aspects of Japanese culture. In Shinto, the indigenous spirituality of Japan, cherry blossoms symbolise the impermanence of all things and the importance of embracing the present moment. The practice of Hanami, or flower viewing, reflects this philosophy and holds a special place in Japanese culture.

Hanami involves more than mere flower-watching; Families and friends gather under the blooming trees, enjoying picnics and celebrating the arrival of spring. The cherry blossom festivals held across Japan during this season further highlight the cultural significance of Sakura. These festivals showcase an array of Japanese traditions, from traditional tea ceremonies to performances and parades.

The association of cherry blossoms with warplanes may seem unexpected, but during World War II, Japanese pilots painted Sakura on their kamikaze planes. The symbolism was both poignant and tragic, as these pilots embraced the fleeting nature of life and the sacrifice they were making for their country. However, in the contemporary context, cherry blossoms are no longer associated with military or self-destructive purposes. Japan has transitioned from wartime symbolism to a more peaceful and celebratory embrace of Sakura.

As we navigated Japan in May 2019, my anticipation for cherry blossoms turned into acceptance as I realised the season had bid farewell. However, the unexpected delight awaited me in September of the same year when I visited the South Island of New Zealand. To my surprise, cherry trees adorned with flowers in full bloom greeted me, adding a touch of magic to the landscape.

Finding cherry blossoms in New Zealand, far from their native Japan, was a testament to the global reach of these beautiful flowers. While Japan is synonymous with cherry blossoms, other countries, including the United States, South Korea, and China, boast cherry trees. Some of these nations even host their cherry blossom festivals, celebrating the beauty and symbolism of these delicate blooms.

Cherry Blossoms Inspire Journeys Beyond Boundaries

My pursuit of cherry blossoms in Japan and New Zealand was a source of inspiration, revealing the universal appeal of these flowers. As I reflect on the experience, I invite others to embark on their journeys to witness the magic of cherry blossoms. Whether in Japan during the spring festival season or in unexpected corners of the world, like the South Island of New Zealand, these blossoms have the power to captivate and inspire.

In planning your travels, consider aligning your trips with the cherry blossom seasons in different regions. Embrace the cultural richness and natural beauty these blossoms bring, and join the global celebration of life, impermanence, and the sheer joy of witnessing nature’s fleeting wonders.

The beauty of cherry blossoms transcends both location and time. They remind us to appreciate life’s transience and find joy in the surprises that bloom along our journeys.

Cherry Blossoms - Queenstown, NZ

The view of cherry blossoms overlooking Queenstown, New Zealand, from the front door of our accommodation.

Q & A

In what seasons do cherry trees blossom in Japan and New Zealand?

Cherry blossoms (or Sakura) bloom in Japan from late March to early May. In New Zealand, particularly the South Island, September is the prime season for these delicate flowers.

What other places in the world to see Sakura?

Apart from Japan and New Zealand, you can catch cherry blossoms in various locations globally. Washington D.C. in the United States, boasts a stunning display, as do South Korea, Taiwan, and China.

Where is Sakura celebrated with festivals?

Japan takes the cherry blossom festival cake with its renowned Hanami celebrations. South Korea’s Jinhae Gunhangje Festival is another must-see. Even in the U.S., the National Cherry Blossom Festival in Washington D.C. is a vibrant celebration of these ephemeral blooms.

More stunning displays of cherry blossoms in New Zealand’s South Island.

Cherry Blossoms in the New Zealand regions of Akaroa, Arrowtown, Christchurch and Queenstown. Photos: Jocelyn Watts, 2019.

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