Hosting High Tea: A Timeless Tradition with Mary Poppins Charm

HIGH TEA is a delightful tradition that combines good food, great company, and elegant presentation. From its British roots to its modern-day celebrations, hosting or attending a High Tea is a memorable way to mark life’s special moments. Whether you’re inspired by the charm of Mary Poppins or just looking to enjoy an afternoon indulgence, let’s explore the key elements of this tradition—and how to make it uniquely Australian.

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Traditional English High Tea. Photo: Shutterstock.

Why Hold a High Tea?

High Tea is more than just a meal; it’s a celebration of connection. Traditionally associated with British customs, it’s a chance to bring people together over delicate treats and freshly brewed tea. In Australia, hosting a High Tea has become a popular choice for birthdays, anniversaries, baby showers, and even casual get-togethers.

The Mary Poppins connection adds an extra layer of whimsy. As Maryborough—the birthplace of P.L. Travers, creator of Mary Poppins—celebrates this tradition, the annual Mary Poppins Festival often includes High Tea events. These gatherings highlight the charm and etiquette that make High Tea such a beloved ritual.

What Is High Tea?

Contrary to popular belief, High Tea isn’t just about tea. Originating in Britain, it was initially a hearty evening meal for the working class, later adopted by the upper class as a more elaborate affair. Today, High Tea typically features:

• Savoury bites like finger sandwiches and quiches
• Sweet treats such as scones with jam and cream, pastries, and cakes
• A selection of freshly brewed teas—from classic black teas to herbal infusions

Modern High Tea has become a symbol of elegance and indulgence, with luxury hotels, restaurants, and venues across Australia offering curated High Tea experiences. Notable venues include the Langham in Melbourne and the Hydro Majestic in the Blue Mountains.

How to Host High Tea at Home

Hosting High Tea at home can be both fun and rewarding. Follow these steps for a memorable gathering:

Plan Your Menu

Include a mix of savoury and sweet items. Some ideas include:

• Cucumber and cream cheese sandwiches
• Mini quiches or smoked salmon pinwheels
• Scones with jam and cream
• Petite cakes or macarons

Choose the Right Chinaware

Elegant chinaware is central to the High Tea experience. A tiered serving stand and fine porcelain tea sets are must-haves. Check out selections on Amazon Australia for everything from vintage-inspired designs to modern classics.

Set the Scene

Create a sophisticated atmosphere with a crisp tablecloth, cloth napkins, and fresh flowers. Add candles for a touch of glamour, and don’t forget a pot of tea to anchor the setting.

Invitations and Etiquette

Personalised invitations—either handwritten or digital—set the tone for your event. High Tea etiquette includes waiting for the host’s cue to start eating and sipping tea with quiet elegance. For a bit of fun, you might even incorporate a dress code.

Games to Play at High Tea

High Tea is the perfect occasion for lighthearted games to keep the conversation flowing and the mood lively. Here are a few ideas to add a touch of fun:

• Tea Trivia: Create a quiz with questions about tea, famous tea brands, or the history of High Tea. Offer small prizes for the winners, like a tea sampler or fancy biscuits.
• Name That Tea: Blindfold players and have them guess the type of tea (green, black, herbal) based on aroma or flavour.
• The Etiquette Game: Share scenarios involving High Tea etiquette and ask players to determine the proper response. Bonus points for creativity!
• Teacup Treasure Hunt: Hide small trinkets or clues around the room. The hints can lead guests to the “treasure” – perhaps a premium tea blend or a mini gift box.
• “Who Said It?” Quotes: Write down famous tea-related quotes or lines from literature. Players must guess who said it or which book it’s from.
• Tea Pictionary: Use a whiteboard or paper to play Pictionary with tea-related words or phrases, like “tea bag,” “scones,” or “Earl Grey.”
• Teapot Stacking: If you have a variety of teacups and saucers, challenge guests to stack them without toppling the tower.
• Two Truths and a Lie (Tea Edition): Have each guest share three tea-related statements about themselves—two true, and one false. Others must guess the lie.
• Tea Leaf Fortune Telling: For a mystical twist, use loose-leaf tea to “read fortunes” in the bottom of a cup. This can be a fun and imaginative conversation starter.
• Themed Charades: Pick themes like tea parties, Downton Abbey, or British royalty and act out roles or situations without speaking.
  

  One of the finest High Teas in town. Photo: Shutterstock.

Australian Venues for High Tea

For those who prefer to enjoy High Tea without the prep work, Australia offers stunning venues to experience this tradition:

• Langham, Melbourne: Known for its indulgent offerings
• Hydro Majestic, Blue Mountains: A heritage experience with spectacular views
• Mary Poppins-inspired events in Maryborough, QLD: Held during the Mary Poppins Festival
• Oaks Hotels: Locations often offer special High Tea packages

Celebrating with High Tea

High Tea is perfect for celebrating milestones like:

• Anniversaries
• Baby showers
• Promotions
• Just because!

Pair your celebration with a themed experience. For instance, incorporate Mary Poppins’ whimsy with games like charades or croquet. Visit Oaks Hotels and Resorts at Hervey Bay to make it easy to plan a weekend getaway for a High Tea adventure.

A Tradition Worth Savouring

High Tea combines tradition, elegance, and joy. Whether you host one at home or enjoy it at a venue, it’s an experience to be treasured. So gather your loved ones, brew a pot of tea, and indulge in this timeless ritual—perhaps with a touch of Mary Poppins magic.

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About the Author

Jocelyn Watts is a writer, photographer and editor of Jocelyn Magazine. Based on Queensland’s Fraser Coast, she explores food not just as nourishment, but as memory, culture and connection.