Etch marriage vows in sand

By guest blogger TONI McRAE, Australian print and broadcast journalist.

Imagine exchanging your marriage vows in sand, billions of years old and rock solid.
Rock solid? Yes, because sand comes from rock, coral, shells – and the beginnings of time itself.
The Sand Wedding Ceremony symbolises unity and is growing in popularity as couples start their new life’s journey together.
In early sand ceremonies the couple tossed handfuls of sand together into the wind. The grains combined and could not of course be separated, thus symbolising unity and eternity.
Many of today’s sand celebrations honour both families and the vases are kept as a treasured reminder of eternal togetherness.

Here’s one way of tying the knot in and with sand:

Choose three beautiful glass vases. Place one coloured sand into one vase, a second colour into another vase. This is designed to represent the couple.
At the right moment in the service, the groom or male partner pours a portion of his sand into the third vase. The bride or female partner then pours a portion of her sand on top of the groom’s and into the third vase.
Finally, the couple jointly pours the remaining sand into each of their vases and into the central vase. Two symbolically then become one.

Here is an original selection of special words each and both can say at the combining of the coloured sands.

I wish for us these sands of time to unite, inspire, and heal.
I wish for us the continuity of the billions of years represented in these sands.
I wish for us the smoothness of these sands as we too move across the waters of life, together.
May our commitment, our love be as ever-lasting as these sands of endless time.

You can also include children in this beautiful ceremony by using more sand colours.

Why not engrave the vases with initials, names and the wedding date making them a moving keepsake for years to come?