By guest blogger TONI McRAE, Australian print and broadcast journalist.
Traditionally we associate weddings with stress, especially it seems for the bride although we know of many grooms who have also melted into cold sweats and grown butterflies in their bellies on their big day.
Your wedding day owes it you to be stress-free. You owe it to you! Certainly if you walk down your garden, church, park, or registry office aisle, you’ll feel better and therefore look a heap better free of stress.
Firstly, make a to do list and start ticking the items off as you work your way towards your big day.
Here are just a few simple thoughts and tips to help to de-stress your wedding – and at the same time to save you heaps of dollars.
A home wedding is an excellent option to save money and make you feel literally “at home”. Why not host the ceremony and reception in your garden, or your family’s?
- Book your favourite eatery to cater for the occasion and opt for a buffet on the patio, or if need be under a marquee, which you can hire.
- Waiters may come with the caterer but otherwise head for your local employment agency and check out who might be available.
- If you decide on a hired venue for your reception, pick one that allows you to bring your own wine and champers. The venue will charge corkage but what a difference this will make to the overall price.
- Choosing a luncheon reception rather than dinner is always a clever option and keeping to a buffet will allow guests to sit where they want – except for the official party of course.
- Have you considered saving even more by holding a champers, strawberries and cream and cake celebration instead of a sit-down meal?
- As for those favours we so often want to place at the table sittings for our guests to take away with them, consider buying flower seed packets from your hardware or garden store and wrap them in tulle, then tie with satin ribbon. Add a note that says something such as: “As our lives will from this day grow and blossom, may these little seeds bloom for you as you remember our happiest of days. Thank you so much for sharing it with us.”
- Lean on your bridesmaids, sister, mother, aunt, friend to go to the market to buy flowers to decorate the house up to two days before the wedding.
- Organise willing family and friends to create the boutonnieres for the groom, his best man and your bridesmaids – not forgetting the two mums and dads involved!
- Why not get the girls to also make your own bouquet? Beautiful satin ribbon is so cheap at your local craft store.
- Brilliant table centrepieces can be created out of crystal salad or fruit bowls. Fill them with perfumed floating candles and sprinkle the heads of seasonal flowers around them.
- Your bridesmaids’ bouquets (hopefully home-made) can come in handy to adorn the cake table and place some tall candles at the corners of the table.
- Thinking of cakes, here’s a great tip. Order an unadorned three-tier cake of your choice and an additional sheet cake of the same mix. Decorate it your self – or get the girls to work again! Flowers from your wedding theme can make an ordinary cake look stunning and romantic.
- If you want the event to look immaculate, there are conscientious cleaners and cleaning agencies who will spruce up the house for you. Make sure you hire them to return after your big day to clean up!
- So many of us arrange to be married on a Saturday. Many dollars will be saved it you choose to marry on a Friday, or even a Sunday. These are often down time days for hospitality workers, celebrants and suppliers.
- For music during your reception suss out your family and friends’ musical or DJ talents. If you have a virtuoso violinist in your immediate circle, suggest they play and tell them you will accept this gladly as their wedding gift.
- A friend may also be able to make an MP3 DVD that can be played from a computer or sound system. Totally free and you can actually choose your songs and music!